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Monday 2 March 2015

Inspiring ?

 Hello my friends !!

So I have had many responses to my blog about my hairloss and the head shave which was truly amazing. I couldn't possibly thank you all enough for given me the support and understanding what a difficult time Iv been having. But something caught my eye which was amazing. So many people had mention that I was so 'Brave' and 'inspirational' and told me how beautiful  I was without hair.
As amazing as all those compliments were, and believe me when I say this, I would of probably crumbled without the support of my friends, family,boyfriend and others who supported me via the internet, I cant agree with you. I  don't  believe me shaving my head was a 'Brave' thing to do.

I think shaving my head was something I had to do, it was my choice. I choose to do it. For myself and know one else.
This may get all deep FYI.

I truly believe this world has gotten far to caught up in looking good and being the 'Perfect' person. But the sad truth is I sometimes get the feeling people are doing this for others and not themselves.This world is a material world, Superficial. It should not have mattered if I shaved my head, died it pink, or got a boob job. As long as I had done it for myself , who cares ? why does it matter to so many people what other people look like? what happened to 'Its on the inside that counts' I sometimes wonder if that's gone out the window.

What I think people don't realize is that its ok not to be perfect all the time.
The world needs to chill out!
 I defiantly think society needs to change, because there are bigger problems in the world other than Victoria Beckham's new fashion line.
Not only is there physical illness, there is terminal illness and mental illness in the world which I believe people sometimes like to try and hide and ignore. Why? why are people ashamed or scared to share ? its an illness, you cannot control it. When I say this I don't mean rubbing it in peoples faces , I mean accepting it for yourself. Get help if you want/need help.
You have got to do what is best for yourself.
'Do You'
'Fall down 7, stand up 8'
and who cares whose watching, As long as you make yourself happy, have your health and loved ones. the people who don't matter will soon show there colours and poof out they go.
The important people will love you for you.
Till next time.

Danielle x

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